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Jul 122026
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6:45-8:45PM
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Beyond Self-Improvement
We receive messages throughout our lives that how we are right now is somehow wrong or lacking: that we need to be happier, calmer, healthier, more productive, or somehow better. This impulse can find its way into mindfulness practice as well, where it can turn even meditation into a “sanctioned” form of self-aggression without our even realizing it.
While mindfulness does support growth and change, that growth and change comes about not from getting rid of what’s here, but from learning to acknowledge and make room for all of it.
To prepare—
- Read Tara Brach's article, Awakening from the Trance of Unworthiness.
- During formal practice this month, notice moments of striving, self-judgment, or self-improvement. When these moments arise, gently ask:
- What am I trying to improve right now?
- What am I unwilling to acknowledge and make room for right now?
- What if I let this belong for even a few breaths?
- Throughout the month, notice moments when you're trying to become someone or something else. Also notice moments when you're letting yourself be as you are. You might keep a few notes and bring them to our gathering.
Please come prepared to share what stood out in the reading, what you noticed about striving and self-improvement this month, and any discoveries, challenges, or insights that arose during your exploration.
Also, bring whatever you need for practice, as well as paper and pen or pencil.
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Jun 142026
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6:45-8:45PM
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Training in Ordinary Beauty
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Apr 122026
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6:45-8:45PM
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"Don't Know" Mind
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Mar 82026
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6:45-8:45PM
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Retreat In Everyday Life: 2-Hour Home Retreat
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Feb 82026
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6:45-8:45PM
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Haiku as Mindful Practice
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Jan 112026
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6:45-8:45PM
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Sitting Together in Joy and Pain
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Dec 142025
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6:45-8:45PM
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Open House: Meet Other 8-Week Grads
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Nov 92025
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6:45-8:45PM
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Standing & Walking Meditation
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Oct 122025
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6:45-8:45PM
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Unfixing Fixed Mind
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Sept 142025
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6:45-8:45PM
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Retreat In Everyday Life: 2-Hour Home Retreat
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Aug 102025
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6:45-8:45PM
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9 Attitudinal Foundations of Mindfulness, from Jon Kabat-Zinn (continued from July)
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July 132025
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6:45-8:45PM
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9 Attitudinal Foundations of Mindfulness, from Jon Kabat-Zinn
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June 82025
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6:45-8:45PM
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Poetry and Mindfulness
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May 112025
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6:45-8:45PM
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Loving-Kindness as a Formal Practice
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Apr 132025
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6:45-8:45PM
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Mindfulness of Feeling Tones: Pleasant, Unpleasant, Neutral
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Mar 92025
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6:45-8:45PM
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Listening & Speaking
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Feb 92025
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6:45-8:45PM
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Mountain Meditation
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Jan 122025
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6:45-8:45PM
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Body Scanning
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Dec 82024
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6:45-8:45PM
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Loving-Kindness Meditation
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Nov 102024
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6:45-8:45PM
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4 Foundations of Mindfulness
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Oct 132024
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6:45-8:45PM
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Self-Compassion
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Sept 82024
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6:45-8:45PM
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Establishing & Re-establishing Practice
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